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SUSTAINABILITY
OF SHAMANIC COACHING
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all have learned that just changing our mental perspective
or our behavior often does not produce the results we're seeking.
Something more is often needed, something on a deeper level.
It is the intent of Shamanic Coaching to deliver an enduring
and fuller experience of change and achievement. Deep and
sustainable change occurs when all aspects of the self are
in alignment. For example, if the body is unable to hold the
energy, the desired behavior will often disintegrate. Specifically,
if you want to be assertive, you need to embody assertiveness
in some way that way conveys assertiveness to yourself and
others. When you go beyond telling yourself to be assertive,
to feeling assertive, you will be assertive.
Shamanic
Coaching's basis
Owen
Rising Elk Marcus' perspective on change work is that we all
have developed behaviors, beliefs and other constructs that
have allowed us to survive our stress. However, these survival
skills often turn into limitations and shadows to our real
consciousness. The goal in Shamanic Coaching is to extract
the gifts hidden in the shadows leaving behind the restrictions.
This is accomplished through an empirical approach to change.
Taking
stress out
Stress
takes us out - it short-circuits our bodies and our minds.
The stress response is a survival response and is hardwired
in us to keep us alive. Unfortunately, a short usually occurs.
More often than most of us realize, we respond to situations
from a place of physiological and psychological survival.
In that place, secondary functions take a back seat. Pleasure,
creativity, healing and intuition are not survival behaviors;
therefore, they are diminished because of stress.
One of
the goals of Shamanic Coaching is to assist a client in rewiring
his or her stress response. When the stress response only
occurs when needed, it serves us, thereby creating a huge
reservoir of resources available to generate success and pleasure.
Yes, this does sound simple, and in theory, it is very simple.
However, teaching the body and the mind to make the shift
can involve some work. But once achieved, the gain is significant
and easy to maintain.
There
are many avenues to eliciting the body's non-stress resources.
Mindfulness the ability to be aware and connected to
the full spectrum of circumstances as they occur is
enormously valuable as it allows the body to respond from
a place of relaxation. A master martial artist or an animal
in the wild is always available to be aware of what is most
important in any given moment. Having a body/mind capable
of doing this opens up deep resources, creating a completely
new set of skills for accomplishing one's goals just
as stress opens deep survival skills.
The
body is our ally

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Only
one who devotes himself to a cause with his
whole strength and soul can be a true master.
For this reason mastery demands all of a person.
Albert Einstein
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The body
is the base for all action as it holds and transforms energy.
A thought or desire may enter the mind, and the body then
takes that energy to turn it into a productive action. We
can choose to ignore this aspect of our existence and have
it sabotage us. Or, alternatively, we can recruit it as an
ally for success.
As we
learn to listen and respect our own emotional and physical
sensations, we become better listeners of others. The empowerment
of the subtle within us becomes the foundation for creativity
for others and ourselves. By fostering our peripheral awareness,
we allow for our own healing and innovation.
Somatic Coaching adds to traditional coaching with the integration
of the body as a resource for sustainable change and power.
Shamanic Coaching builds on this powerful use of the body
to deepen and expedite the change.
When
we own on a visceral level our body awareness, all of our
power is as natural as is the force of the wind. We begin
to find ourselves being powerful without effort or thought.
Power and wisdom come from some place deep within. This place
is naturally in alignment with our values. Here the consort
of all of our aspects aligns to create a deep presence of
innate authority.
Using
your secret ally
The unconscious
mind is always operating in the background, observing and
reacting. It is much like a hidden program on a computer.
Often its memory or its hidden agenda can sabotage what we
want anything from a Freudian slip to forgetting your
spouse's birthday can occur.
As with
the body, we have a choice of ignoring and denying this element
of our existence or using it. Coincidentally, the body and
the unconscious mind are two sides of the same coin. Accessing
either will open the door to our true control center. Just
as Dorothy lifted the curtain to reveal the man behind the
wizard, so do we reveal our root of control when we release
the body and the unconscious mind.
Shamanic
Coaching integrates learning and leadership by incorporating
the body and the unconscious mind. Knowledge is replaced with
embodied wisdom.
Embodying
deep mastery
Mastery
is not a finite state. It is an ongoing process that leads
towards a goal that is never fully achieved; it is a process
of refinement. Shamanic Coaching assists you in accessing
all of your skills and passions to come much closer to achieving
this goal. It is one thing to coach a client towards a goal;
it is another matter to awaken a client's inner resources
to achieve the goal. It is much like taking a child who is
a natural born basketball player and not supplying just a
basketball, but creating an environment that nurtures and
inspires. Designing a place where a hidden talent can be discovered;
a place with mentors who can who model the needed skills and
be guides on the journey. Coaching this child often becomes
a process of drawing out his or her talent and passion. The
child's mastery evolves from all aspects of him or her being
fully engaged in learning and life.
Just
as this child develops a vision of a basketball player, a
leader follows a vision. He or she is a caretaker to the vision
and uses his or her mastery to assure the vision's attainment.
This vision can be very personal or it can be an organizational
vision. The more assets he or she is able to enlist, the more
assured he or she will be of the expeditious success.
Healing
with Shamanic Coaching
One of
the interesting phenomena of Shamanic Coaching is that as
clients make their shifts on emotional, mental and physical
levels, other parts of them change without any effort. The
once limiting inter-connection of all the aspects of a client
develops into a synergy of change. Quite simply, stress and
tension are replaced with vitality and health. Much of the
sustainability of Shamanic Coaching derives from how many
aspects are changed and how they support each other in restoring
health. Some have used Shamanic Coaching and this ability
to catalyze healing. The distinction between learning behaviors
that are more effective and healing past limitations is relative
to how a client frames his or her experience.
Network
of resources
Owen
often relies on his network of professionals to enhance his
work with his clients. Professionals and organizations local
to the client can augment and reinforce the changes a client
experiences.
For information
about innovative solutions to dealing with stress, visit Owen's
blog: http://www.stressedout.org/
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